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Showing posts with label death. Show all posts
Showing posts with label death. Show all posts

Friday, June 12, 2009

Now he's gone.


Denan slipped away last Friday 5th of June at 2.32pm.On Thursday,he had a bout of very high fever and had to be sent by ambulance to GHKL.He however succumbed the next day.We only got the news at 3.32pm and so were unable to attend the final rites.Muslims believe that the dead should be laid to rest as soon as possible.However we left JB at 6 the next morning to go to Kajang to pay our respects.It was a tiring time as we had just come back from our family vacation in Penang.Everything was so sombre and solemn.Now I have lost a brother-in -law who has by far been a pleasant and unassuming man.AL-FATIHAH.
(Denan's on the left of the picture.This was taken when he visited about 5 years ago.He was well then)

Saturday, May 16, 2009

About pending death

Denan and his family came to visit today.He looks gaunt and tired.His speech is slightly slurred and he is often breathless.Amin says the cancer is at its last stage but Denan nor his mother know about it.I feel sad.Here is my brother-in-law sitting infront of me and I know it might be the last time he is visiting his Kak Teh.We'll be going out for dinner tonight and he wants to go somewher near the sea.So we'll bring him to Senibung and he requested for 'udang galah'.I hope they have it tonight.
Things like this always make me sad.I don't like deaths and I don't like hospitals.My Dad and Mom died in the hospital.Doa Kak Teh untuk kau Denan.