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Saturday, August 8, 2009
Its a wedding!
Yesterday was Hui's wedding day.Congrats Hui.The wedding ceremony itself was at. a church followed by cocktails.The dinner was at Shangrila Hotel Singapore.However two important people were missing...the late Phee Aik and M.I'm sure there was a fleeting moment for Hui when she thought of them on her day.But we cannot always get what we want!I hope M and Phee Aik watched that momentous moment from whereever they were.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
An untimely death
Last Saturday,saw the passing of Malaysia's most creative film director Alllahyarhamah Yasmin Ahmad.She died of a very sudden clogging of blood in her brain and it took many of us by surprise.I feel greatly for her and her mother Inom as we all lived in the hospital quarters in Batu Pahat.Yasmin's grandfather,Pak Yon and my late father were good friends ,all in one gang...the tennis gang!Inom taught in my alma mater TIGS and she and my sisters were friends.That is why when I watched Yasmin's 'Mukhsin" it was so 'deja vu' for me for it brought back memories of my childhhood in Batu Pahat.
Yasmin was 51 when she died and 15 years younger than I but she was able to see life like me...no sense of bigotry and racism.During my childhood days my sisters and I w ere never taught to choose our friends according to their skin colour.Anyone nice and fun to be with was our friend and until today,I do not harbour any form of racial segregation at all!Yasmin's parents taught her well!Her 'Tan Hong Ming'ad was one kind. Children are colour-blind and they should stay that way. they are colour-blind until the parents spoil the whole thing and the parents should be spanked.
One thing that I fail to understand was how a certain periodical could publish facts about Yasmin's background after she was gone .Why were they not brave enough to do so when she was around?And as Muslims do they not know that the dead should be respected!As "writers" don't they know that you do not speak evil of one who is gone?What happened to their ethics?No ethics??..that's the reason why they are called 'low down'writers!We people from Batu Pahat know about this and none of have ever gone to the papers to tell them about it.It is something very personal and not for the whole world to know about.I think all of us are entitled to some kind of privacy no matter how famous(Yasmin) and unknown(yours truly) that we are!For you Yasmin I offer Fatihah and may you rest well.
Yasmin was 51 when she died and 15 years younger than I but she was able to see life like me...no sense of bigotry and racism.During my childhood days my sisters and I w ere never taught to choose our friends according to their skin colour.Anyone nice and fun to be with was our friend and until today,I do not harbour any form of racial segregation at all!Yasmin's parents taught her well!Her 'Tan Hong Ming'ad was one kind. Children are colour-blind and they should stay that way. they are colour-blind until the parents spoil the whole thing and the parents should be spanked.
One thing that I fail to understand was how a certain periodical could publish facts about Yasmin's background after she was gone .Why were they not brave enough to do so when she was around?And as Muslims do they not know that the dead should be respected!As "writers" don't they know that you do not speak evil of one who is gone?What happened to their ethics?No ethics??..that's the reason why they are called 'low down'writers!We people from Batu Pahat know about this and none of have ever gone to the papers to tell them about it.It is something very personal and not for the whole world to know about.I think all of us are entitled to some kind of privacy no matter how famous(Yasmin) and unknown(yours truly) that we are!For you Yasmin I offer Fatihah and may you rest well.
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