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Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The two other golden rules

The two other golden rules that M drummed into our heads is still very clear in my mind.When you're in love and all lovey-dovey,you swear to go to the ends of the earth for each other etc,etc.Hey what's yours is mine and what's mine is yours.Remember?Yes- agreed especially when both are working but a big but there.The lady ,like M says, must always have her own little nest-egg....a private one where only she knows of its existence.You never know when it'll come in handyIf you are a housewife learn to budget with whatever he gives you each month.Keep the extra in your nest-egg.No! you're not cheating.Consider that your salary??.
I have personally witnessed a young wife practically begging her husband to buy her something.He refused her downright and if you had seen that crest-fallen look on her face ,you would have wept for her.I did...silently.Obviously she only got things if he decided to buy her things.What a life!!!So much for the story of the nest-egg
The last golden rule has and still is a great mystery to me.M says never tell him everything about you.I mean if you are part of the Mafia gang then it'll be hard to keep it a secret.It is about things that will keep him wondering about you..you know that mystery about you.It will make each day an exciting day with him curious to find out more about
his wife.That she says will keep the marriage going!If he knows everything,then boredom sets in and you know what can happen.I've never understood this rule till today but we've been married 45 years.So I must have done something right !Hurray for me!!
Those two are the last of M's golden rules.Read it with a pinch of salt.SEE YA!

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